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Food first

Please note

A food first approach uses foods with a higher fat and sugar content to boost calorie intake. Always discuss this with your healthcare professional if you have concerns regarding health conditions such as diabetes as closer monitoring may be required.

Food first strategies are typically intended to assist with weight recovery. Once you have improved your weight or achieved a body mass index of 25kg/m2, if appropriate, aim to gradually reinstate a healthy balanced diet.

You have been given this booklet because it has been identified that you have a lower than recommended weight for your height (body mass index) and, or you have been losing weight unintentionally. Due to this you may be at risk of malnutrition. We recommend that you follow the advice in this booklet, monitor your weight regularly and contact your GP for further support if needed.

This booklet is intended to provide generalised information to assist with poor appetite. Always make sure that you continue to follow any dietary restrictions for the management of food allergies or intolerances.

Weight

  • Monitor your weight using a consistent approach; use the same scales, same flooring, and same time of day wearing similar clothing.
  • Do not weigh yourself more than once per week (unless otherwise advised by a healthcare professional) as this can cause unnecessary anxieties.

Please speak to your healthcare professional if you require support with weighing or working out your body mass index (BMI).

Eating is typically a social, enjoyable experience involving the intake of food and fluid to maintain physical and mental wellbeing and protect weight.

At times of illness you may no longer experience a desire to eat or feelings of hunger, this can result in unplanned weight loss.

Poor eating and continued weight loss can result in feeling tired, cold, lethargic, and struggling to recover from illness with reduced quality of life.

Think! Do I want to stay the same?

If not start small and consider the following changes to make a big difference; weight gain is all about having extra calories:

  • do not worry about the quality of your diet at this current moment, the aim is to start eating a little more
  • choose or offer favourite and preferred foods at any time of the day
  • aim for three small meals per day
  • if you soon feel over faced serve meals on a tea plate, as things improve so will the portion size
  • eat the protein (meat, fish, cheese, egg, or Quorn) and carbohydrate (potato, pasta, rice, or bread) part of the meal first. Don’t worry if the vegetables remain uneaten, as these contain fewer calories
  • add extra calories to main meals with butter, cheese, cream or sauces (refer to the tables on the following pages)
  • include a high calorie pudding after main meals, for example fruit crumble and custard, milk puddings or thick and creamy yoghurts
  • add a small sweet or savoury snack, for example, chocolate biscuit, mini sausage roll, handful of dried fruit and nuts between meals. For example, eating 5 Jelly Babies is 100 extra calories!
  • try a milky drink made with full fat or enriched milk as this can be more nourishing than water based drinks
  • try and eat first, drinking immediately before or during a meal can lead to feeling fuller much sooner

Be realistic

  • Eating when you have a poor appetite is difficult, but there is no instant solution.
  • Appetite and hunger are more likely to return with small regular meals and snacks throughout the day.
  • Make life easier; consider ready meals or a hot meal delivery service until you feel like cooking again.
  • Use tinned, frozen or ready prepared foods; don’t be too exhausted from cooking to actually eat!
  • If a main meal is unlikely to be eaten; have a small snack or nourishing milky drink instead.
  • If you are struggling to eat, consider an A to Z multivitamin which can be bought in most supermarkets or pharmacy.
  • Be willing to accept support with meals and drinks.

If you are supporting others

  • Prompting and encouraging your relative or friend to eat can be challenging at times; sometimes excessive prompting can be counterproductive.
  • Try and create an enjoyable, relaxed and positive eating experience.

Have you considered the things that may be stopping you from eating?

  • Talk to your GP if you are experiencing symptoms such as nausea, vomiting, or if you are having problems with your bowels.
  • Check with the dentist if you are having problems with your teeth or dentures.
  • Seek support if you are experiencing low mood, anxiety or depression.

Contact us

This booklet has been produced by the Rotherham, Doncaster and South Humber NHS Foundation Trust dietetic service in consultation with Doncaster and Bassetlaw Teaching Hospital NHS Foundation Trust dietetic service. If you have any queries or require any further information, please contact any of the following dietetic services.

Contact details for more information

Rotherham, Doncaster and South Humber NHS Foundation Trust dietetic service
Doncaster and Bassetlaw Teaching Hospital NHS Foundation Trust dietetic service

Calorie boosts

Adding one or more of the following full fat or sugar items to your food, such as butter to potatoes or double cream to your soup or dessert; will help to add extra calories.

Enriched milk

Mix 2 to 4 tablespoons of dried milk powder to 1pint (568ml) of full fat milk. Keep refrigerated and use in place of ordinary milk in drinks, smoothies, soups, sauces, puddings, custard and on cereals.

Savoury options
  • A small handful of grated cheese.
  • 1 tablespoon of mayonnaise.
  • 1 tablespoon of oil.
  • 2 cubes of butter.
  • 2 tablespoons of crème fraiche.
  • 2 tablespoons of sauces or salad dressing.
  • 1 tablespoon paté.
  • 2 tablespoons of pesto.
  • 2 tablespoons of salad cream.
  • 2 heaped tablespoons of dried milk powder
  • 1 tablespoon cream cheese.
Sweet options
  • 1 heaped tablespoon of sugar or icing sugar.
  • 1 small pot of full fat yoghurt.
  • 1 and a half tablespoons of double cream.
  • 2 tablespoons of chocolate sauce.
  • 2 tablespoons of golden syrup.
  • 1 small pot of custard.
  • 2 tablespoons of lemon curd.
  • 2 tablespoons of condensed milk.
  • 2 tablespoons of honey.
  • 2 scoops of ice cream.
  • 1 tablespoon of peanut butter.
  • 1 tablespoon of jam or marmalade.
Simple swaps

Large sachet porridge made with 245ml semi skimmed milk is 254 calories

Large sachet porridge made with 245ml full fat milk with 1 tablespoon double cream is 382 calories.

This saves 128 extra calories.

What about trying

At times when it feels impossible to eat a full meal, try having smaller portions of food, but more frequently. Aim to have something every 2 to 3 hours. The following snack and menu ideas are to help you get started. Remember to use full fat versions of foods and avoid low fat or diet options.

Sweet snacks
  • A small handful of dried fruit.
  • A slice or piece or handful of fresh fruit.
  • Tinned fruit in syrup.
  • A shortbread finger.
  • Handful sweet popcorn.
  • Stewed apple with custard or cream.
  • Full fat yoghurt.
  • Milk jelly.
  • Rice pudding.
  • Crème caramel.
  • Trifle pots.
  • Cream cakes.
  • Full size chocolate bars.
  • 3 squares of milk chocolate.
  • Dipping snacks, for example, chocolate spread.
  • 5 jelly babies.
  • 3 Jaffa Cakes.
  • Angel Delight with fruit.
  • Tiramisu.
  • Crème brulée pots.
  • Panna cotta.
  • Mousse.
  • Mini chocolate rolls.
  • Biscuits (preferably cream or chocolate varieties).
  • Flapjacks.
  • Teacakes.
  • Individual cake bars.
  • Scones.
  • Mini apple pies, Bakewell tarts.
Savoury snacks
  • Crisps or prawn crackers.
  • Tortilla chips and dip.
  • Small handful of nuts.
  • Build up soups (for example, Meritene or Complan).
  • Cheese and crackers.
  • Flavoured rice cakes.
  • Bread sticks.
  • Mini pork pies and sausage rolls or sausages.
  • Mini Scotch egg.
  • Cheese biscuits or cheese straws.
  • Spring rolls or prawn toast.
  • Bhaji, pakora or samosa.
  • Oat cakes with topping (pate).
Fortified creamy yoghurt (makes 1 portion)

Ingredients:

  • One 150g thick and creamy yoghurt
  • 15g (1 tablespoon) dried milk powder
  • 15g (1 tablespoon) honey or syrup

Directions:

  1. mix all the ingredients together until the milk powder has dissolved

The total calories are 300 to 350 calories, 10g protein.

Fortified instant dessert (makes 3 portions)

Ingredients:

  • 1 packet instant dessert, for example, Angel Delight
  • 150ml full cream milk
  • 150ml double cream
  • 4 tablespoons dried milk powder

Directions:

  1. mix the milk powder with the instant dessert powder
  2. add a little of the milk, to make a smooth paste
  3. whisk in the remaining milk and cream
  4. put into 3 dessert dishes, chill briefly in the fridge and serve

The total calories are 360 calories 10g protein.

Menu ideas

For ideas for breakfast and main meals we recommend the following:

Breakfast
  • Cereal with full fat or enriched milk.
  • Porridge or instant oat cereal.
  • Full fat yoghurt with added biscuits or fruit.
  • Omelette with a filling, for example, cheese.
  • Scrambled egg with extra butter.
  • Croissants with butter or jam.
  • Crumpet or fruit teacake.
  • Toast or with butter and extra jam or marmalade or peanut butter or chocolate hazelnut spread or soft cheese.
  • Cheddar cheese on toast.
Main meals
  • Lasagne.
  • Chili con carne.
  • Macaroni cheese.
  • Corned beef hash.
  • Shepherd’s pie.
  • Chicken curry with rice and poppadum.
  • Cheese omelette with diced potato and mixed vegetables.
  • Bean casserole with special fried rice.
  • Butternut squash and butterbean stew with potato wedges, pasta or rice.
  • Pizza slices (for example, Margherita, pepperoni).
  • Quorn or meat chow mein.
  • Casserole with dumpling.
  • Yorkshire pudding with a filling, for example, savoury mince.
  • Enchiladas with meat or vegetarian filling.
  • Sausage hotpot.
  • Pork meatballs and penne pasta.
  • Sweet and sour chicken with rice.
  • Fish with fried diced potato and minted mushy peas.
  • Mackerel in sauce and small baked potato.
  • Chicken nuggets with chips and dip.

Add the extras and increase the calories

Small portion lasagne is 211 calories.

25g grated cheese and 1 slice garlic bread is 180 calories.

The total calories are 391 calories.

Small meals
  • Pasties or sausage roll.
  • Pork pie and pickle.
  • Tuna pasta salad pots.
  • Sandwiches with various fillings.
  • Soup such as cream of tomato, chicken or vegetable.
  • Macaroni cheese or ravioli (tinned or individual portions).
  • Slice of quiché.
  • Cheese and biscuits.
  • Sardines in tomato sauce on 1 slice buttered bread.
  • Baked potato and half a tin of baked beans.

Nourishing drinks

For ideas for nourishing drinks we recommend the following:

Enriched milk

2 to 4 tablespoons dried milk powder added to 1 pint (568ml) full fat milk and used for a glass of milk, malted drinks (Ovaltine or Horlicks), hot chocolate or latte style coffee throughout the day.

Iced coffee

200ml enriched milk with 2 teaspoons instant coffee and sugar to taste.

Compact hot drinks

3 teaspoons dried milk powder mixed together with 125ml full  fat milk, heat gently in a microwave and add a flavouring of your choice, for example, hot chocolate, coffee, malted drinks, mix well prior to serving.

Booster breakfast drink

200ml fruit juice, 125g Greek Yoghurt, 1 tablespoon honey or sugar,1 tablespoon dried milk powder. Mix all ingredients together.

Fortified tinned soup

150g of condensed soup, for example, cream of tomato or chicken, 140ml enriched milk 1 tablespoon (30ml) double cream 2 tablespoons (20g) grated cheddar cheese. Warm soup gently and gradually add remainder of ingredients, stir until thoroughly mixed.

Shop bought alternatives
  • Complan.
  • Meritene soups and shakes.
  • Meritene ready to drink.
  • Aymes shake.
  • Nourishment.
  • Breakfast to go drinks.

Please avoid body building supplements.

High calorie homemade drinks and shots

The healthcare professional has recommended the following high calorie drink(s) to be taken after main meals and between meals:

Super shake compact (makes 1 portion of 125ml)

Ingredients:

  • 125ml full fat milk
  • 3 tablespoons milk powder
  • 3 teaspoons milkshake powder

Mix all ingredients together and stir well.

The total calories are 300 calories, 21g protein.

Super juice (makes 1 portion of 200ml)

Ingredients:

  • 100ml regular lemonade
  • 75ml cordial
  • 2 tablespoons icing sugar
  • 1 tablespoon golden syrup

Mix all ingredients together and stir well.

The total calories are 450 calories, 2g protein.

Super soup (makes 1 portion of 200ml)

Ingredients:

  • 1 sachet Cup a Soup
  • 1 tablespoon dried milk powder
  • 200ml whole milk, boiled

Combine the soup and dried milk powder with a small amount of cold milk to a paste; gradually add the boiling milk until thickened.

The total calories are 250 calories, 15g protein.

Booster smoothie (makes 1 portion of 200ml)

Ingredients:

  • Handful of soft fruit
  • 2 scoops vanilla ice cream
  • 2 tablespoons double cream
  • 100ml whole milk
  • 30ml flavoured sauce
  • 1 tablespoon dried milk powder

Place all ingredients into a blender and mix to a smooth consistency.

The total calories are 430 calories, 12g protein.

Cream shot (makes 1 portion of 40ml)

Ingredients:

  • 40ml double cream
  • Small amount of flavouring to taste flavouring to taste

Mix all ingredients together and stir well.

The total calories are 180 calories, 2g protein.

Page last reviewed: September 30, 2024
Next review due: September 30, 2025

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